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How One Couple Ditched The 9 To 5 For Van Life

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Last Updated on October 27, 2020 by Yovana

Ever wanted to just say ‘screw it’ and travel full time? Well that is exactly what one couple did. I have been following along Gnomad Home’s van life story since the beginning and find it so inspiring. I have been wanting to interview them for some time and finally got the chance to do so! Disclaimer: All photos in this post are property of Gnomad Home.

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Tell us a little about yourselves.

We are a quirky family of five: Jayme and John (humans), Nymeria and Crow (dogs) and a big gold van named Gnomie. Until recently we were living in the suburbs, working 9-5 jobs, and feeling dissatisfied with our lives. That kind of lifestyle may work for some, but it’s definitely not for us, and life’s just too short to mortgage it away for an uncertain future. So, we sold everything we owned, bought a 1996 Chevy Express conversion van (Gnomie), turned it into a mobile home on wheels, and now we live in our van and travel full time.

What turned you guys on to van life?

We have always been adventurers. We met serving in AmeriCorps NCCC, a service organization in which you travel around the country working with nonprofits and responding to disasters. We’ve backpacked around Southeast Asia together. We’ve traveled to Ireland and Colombia. Before “van life” we had experienced most of the eastern half of the United States together. In between our travels, though, we were following in the illusory footsteps of the perceived “American Dream.” We had bought a house in the suburbs of St. Louis, MO, had gotten married, and found ourselves stuck in jobs we hated because we had bills to pay. We always dreamed of quitting our jobs to travel, to go on “one last hurrah” before having kids. Originally we were thinking of doing a longer backpacking trip, but then we got a dog and decided to explore North America so we could take her with us. At first the plan was to buy a small SUV and tent camp our way around the US, then one of our best friends told us to check out the hashtag #vanlife of Instagram. This was our brief but exciting introduction to this alternate style of living, and we immediately knew it was for us.

How did you decide to just go for it already and be van lifers!?

We saw people from all different backgrounds living full time and part time out of these very miniature homes they had created. It was exhilarating going through all of these different accounts we were coming across. We juggled a lot of “We should do this!!” .. “Oh my goodness, no we can’t do this!” for a few days before we decided – screw it! Let’s get a van! Then we lived on Craigslist for weeks looking at vans. Refreshing our feeds and checking every single location literally ALL. DAY. LONG. Hours and hours and hours and hours of researching what kind of vehicle we wanted and then seeing if we could find it.

How did you guys plan out and save money for van life?

The very first things we had to do was decide what to do with all of our stuff. We had a three bedroom two story house that we had managed to FILL with THINGS – EVERYWHERE! Do we pay for storage and come back to everything? Do we ask friends or family to store our stuff for us? None of the options seemed like a good idea. Then we realized – what if we didn’t have all of our stuff? So we decided to sell ALL of our belongings. Truly all of it. We sold our kitchenware, our decorations and souvenirs we had collected throughout our travels, our bed, our TVs, our cars, our sectional couch (which was the first large purchase we had ever made together), Jayme’s ENTIRE CLOSET of clothes. We sold all of it, and we made over $10,000 doing so. That helped us out a lot with the transition.

During this time, John was also in the process of starting an online business building and managing blogs and websites that generate affiliate commissions, and that now brings in a full time income that sustains us on the road today.

What was your van conversion budget and did you make it?

Interior of van

Our budget was $10,000 for everything including the purchase of the vehicle, and we basically hit that budget dead on. One thing we tell everyone wanting to do van life and is that when you make a budget you tend to hit that budget. If you have less to work with, you definitely don’t need to spend as much as we did. On the flip side, there are people who spend way more than $10,000. The point is, no matter your budget, you can find a way to make it work for you.

How do you guys make money on the road?

We own a few websites that generate affiliate income, mostly from Amazon. Our van life blog represents a big chunk of our income, but we have other websites as well. On our blog, we have detailed posts going over exactly how we built out our van. We also have a huge 21,000-word free resource on building your own campervan that breaks it down step-by-step, with recommendations and pros/cons for every budget and need. Many of the products we mention (all of which we actually use or have researched thoroughly) link out to Amazon, and if you click through one of our links and buy something, we get a small commission. The income we earn from this has been growing rapidly and now covers our expenses and then some.

We also have a few other ways of making extra money on the road. Right now we’re working on an organic farm for the harvest season. And like many other van lifers we’re involved with social media and will occasionally do a sponsored post for a company that we believe in. But that’s really just a little extra gas money. Most of our income comes from our websites right now.

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What is your monthly budget?

We don’t really have a set monthly budget, although we probably should, haha. Our spending fluctuates from month to month and depends on a few different factors: how frequently we’re traveling, how much time we’re spending in cities, and how often we’re paying for camping. But we usually live very well on about $1800 a month. Our biggest expenses are gas (usually between $400 and $600, depending on how much we’re moving), groceries (about $500), and cell phone service with unlimited data (about $150). We try our best to stay away from cities and to camp for free on public lands, which really cuts down on costs. Not having to pay rent or mortgage is a huge bonus.

What do your daily routines look like?

I guess this varies. It depends on if we are in one location all day long or if it is a “travel day”. Travel days tend to be a little less exciting and seem more like work because these are the days we also try to knock out all of our errands we have to run. Let’s say we are camped out though then our day may look a bit like this:

Wake up

Bathroom shenanigans

Morning journals

Yoga for Jayme while John and Nymeria go for a run


Computer work

Break for lunch

Computer work

Break for fun stuff (playing music, hula hooping, reading, etc)

Family hike with the dogs

More computer work if there’s still work to be done

Make dinner

Play yahtzee

Evening journals

Lay down and read, cuddle, sometimes watch a tv show

Go to bed

Do you have any tips for van lifers starting out for saving money on the road?

Downsizing would be our biggest suggestion. Not only does it give you a good financial start to the whole process, but it also helps you prepare for what you truly NEED. Living van life, you are living in a much smaller space, so the items you have with you at all times are only the most important items. We run to Goodwill about once a month with anything we haven’t touched in awhile because we don’t have the space to carry things we’re not using regularly. So definitely downsizing is a great way to begin. And just truly figuring out what’s important to you. Would you rather be living in a van traveling around, or would you rather be going out to the bar with your friends all the time? We had to make decisions like these a lot along the process, because anytime we went out on the town, that was time and money we were not able to put towards the van and hitting the road.

You guys have 2 dogs with you on the road. Tell us a little about how pet care and van life works.

Picture of two dogs in van

Honestly, it’s very similar to before van life – except we get to spend a whole lot more time together as a family. We still go on walks (although now they are hikes throughout beautiful scenery instead of just a walk around the neighborhood), we feed them twice a day, they sleep in bed with us. We don’t really do anything the dogs cannot do, which the only big damper here is National Parks (dog’s aren’t allowed on the trails in National Parks), but they are totally allowed in National Forests which are always right outside the National Parks. Nymeria (2 and a half years old) loves the van so much. We always joke that we built the van for her. She is meant to be in the wild, she truly flourishes there. It’s so fun watching her agility skills as she glides over fallen trees and chases little animals all over the place (she doesn’t kill animals, she just enjoys the chase ?). We rarely keep her on a leash or tether when we’re in the middle of nowhere. She never goes too far, and is much happier off leash anyway. Crow (16 years old) is very adaptable. She doesn’t care too much where we are or anything as long as she can poop, pee, eat, and has a comfy place to lay. But again, everything else is the same as when we lived in a van. We still do vet visits, they get their monthly meds, they get exercise. We don’t leave them in the van unattended unless it’s cool weather, and in those instances we make it quick. If it is too hot or anything, we will have one of us stay in the van to maintain temperature control while the other one runs in and grabs groceries or whatever.

What are the top 5 essential items that make for a successful van life?

(I just want to say that this question and the next one are very difficult to answer because it all varies on the traveler. My annoyances are mainly the things we run into in cities, whereas someone else may love being in cities and finds a lot of annoyances in the middle of nowhere. So just want to emphasize that these answers are for us personally, not for van lifers overall).

This totally depends on the individual. A rock climber’s van is going to look entirely different than a musician’s van, and so on. I can try to come up with 5 things though, they just may not all be physical things.

    • One thing would be figuring out the 3 things that are most important to you and your build and focus your build around that. Our 3 things would probably be a large bed, off-grid capabilities, and an ample amount of storage. Going along with this – figuring out what you are wanting to get out of van life. Are you wanting to visit more friends and family? Are you wanting to find more seclusion? Are you wanting to mountain bike, or run marathons, or go kayaking? Knowing what you want and aiming to give that to yourself is the best way to bring yourself success.

    • Maybe having some basic vehicle knowledge? The less time and money you can spend at a mechanic the better. You’d be surprised the amount of money you can save if you know how to change your own oil, tires, etc. However, vehicle knowledge is easy to pick up on the road. Van lifers love helping each other out, so you should be able to find someone to help you replace your brake pads or show you how to change your oil.

    • Getting involved in the community. There’s a truly awesome community of nomads out there, and it’s just a blast connecting with everyone, going to meetups, and making new friends. Social media is a great way to get started. We’ve connected with so many people on Instagram that have since become friends in real life. The camaraderie and inspiration that’s abundant in the nomad community makes it a lot more fun to be on the road.

    • Free camping resources. We need to find places to sleep at night, and we prefer not to pay if we don’t have to. Websites like and apps like iOverlander and Allstays are great resources for finding free, legal camping just about anywhere.

  • Last and – in my opinion – the MOST important, is a positive mindset. I always say that if you typically have a negative attitude, then van life is not for you. Things will go wrong, frequently. Your mindset is what will make or break you. Some nights you might have to sleep in a tent on some rocky gravel in the low 40s while your van is getting fixed (this literally just happened to us). Or your refrigerator will get unplugged without noticing, so all of your food goes bad. Or it won’t stop raining and WHERE IS THIS LEAK IN MY ROOF COMING FROM!? If you can’t be flexible with the unexpectedness of van life and remain open to what each situation is bringing to your life, it will definitely be a challenging lifestyle. But if you accept all of the ups and downs thrown at you as individual experiences you can gain from and learn from, you will be all the better for it and van life will be dramatically more enjoyable for you.

What are the top 5 things that can make for an unpleasant van life?

    • Well, going along with above – a negative attitude. It can truly ruin the entire thing if you can’t stop looking at a situation negatively. If you’re the type of person who lets a flat tire ruin your day, then van life might not be for you. Crazy unexpected things will happen, and you need to roll with it and stay positive. Negative attitudes don’t last long on the road.

    • This is a personal opinion, but we hate spending time in cities. Driving and parking in cities is hell, there’s way too much going on, it can be challenging to find legal camping that’s not a Walmart, and we think most cities are all kind of the same anyway. That being said, there are plenty of people who build vans and only hang out in cities. Again, it’s up to the individual.

    • Unpreparedness, I suppose could be one. We are pretty set for just about any situation. We have tools, first aid kits, and camping gear stashed throughout the van. That all comes in handy when we need to fix something on the road, or when the van’s in the shop and we need to sleep in the tent for a couple nights.

    • Hot summer weather. Again this is up to the traveler, but John and I try to chase the cooler weather. It’s a lot more pleasant dealing with cool weather in a vehicle than hot weather. We have a small propane heater we can turn on when it’s too cold, but there’s just not really an effective solution for dealing with hot summer weather other than parking in the shade.

  • Not being adventurous. Living in a van is adventurous in itself, but there’s lots more adventure to be had on the road. Van life is a lot better when you’re getting out of your comfort zone as much as possible. This can be a gradual thing, too. When we first hit the road, we sort of tiptoed into the whole thing. We started off mostly sleeping in state parks and actual campgrounds, and we didn’t have our first boondocking experience (camping in the wilderness far away from civilization or development) until about two weeks in. And trust us, boondocking on public lands beats campground camping every time. Not only is it free, the most beautiful and fulfilling spots are out in the middle of nowhere. But you need to be adventurous in order to find a lot of these places, because more often than not you’ll have to drive 10 miles down gnarly dirt forest service roads to get to them.

What are your favorite meals to cook in your van or out in the wilderness?

Oh man we have so many. I would say some of our go-tos would be chili mac, eggs-toast-avocado combos, we also looooove making lentils and quinoa, with enough to fry up some leftover lentil patties for sandwiches the following day. We also just resort to a bunch of stir fry situations. Just take whatever veggies and tempeh/tofu we have and throw them together with a bunch of seasonings and enjoy with some chopsticks!

That brings us to your new E-book that just came out! Tell us a little bit about that.

So John and I had an idea of finding ways to bring van lifers together and give back as a community. We realized that something we all have in common is our use of public lands, so we wanted to find a way for the nomad community to give back to these awesome places that give so much to us. So we started United We Van as a collaborative effort of the nomad community to raise money for public lands conservation. We just came out with a cookbook that has over 100 pages of recipes and van life cooking tips from experienced van lifers from all over the world! We’re donating 100% to The Nature Conservancy (no, John and I don’t keep a dime of this!)

What exciting things do you have in the works and what should we look out for?

John and I have teamed up with Vanlife Diaries to host a Midwest Van life Meetup May 18-20th next year in the Mark Twain National Forest in Missouri! There will be raffles, pot lucks, live music, and a screening of the Vanlife Diaries documentary The Meaning of Vanlife! So put this down in your schedule and get ready to visit the Midwest with a bunch of nomads! (Sidenote – you do NOT need to own a van, or vehicle of any sort really to participate. Come one come all!)

Did you have to sell your house for van life or plan on coming back to it?

We decided to rent out our house while on the road in case van life figuratively or literally blew up in our faces. But, we will be heading back “home” for the holidays and plan to sell our house once the lease is up with our tenants. Van life is just way too awesome for us to ever consider going back to our old lives.

Any plans for after van life or is it the van for life?

We are actually in the process of mentally building a larger van that can hold car seats (No – mom, dad, in-laws, grandma, grandpa, Caiti, etc – we are not pregnant – just in the very early steps of planning). Eventually we would like to get some property somewhere, probably in the northwest. We don’t plan on permanently settling down forever, but we think it would be nice to have a little spot we can always go back to that we can call “ours”. We are wanting a lot of property that we can have fun building and testing out different kinds of tiny houses that we can temporarily live in and Airbnb out when we are not there. And we’d love to have campsites and a garage with tools set up so that fellow nomads can come hang out, work on their vans, and be part of a little “nomad village.” We also think it would be dope to have a large enough property that we can use part of it to house a Vipassana meditation – but that’s way down the road so we’ll see.

How do you stay motivated? Does blogging help? Tell us a little about your blog Anything else?

The blog definitely helps. The followers help more than anything. It’s very inspiring to hear their stories and hear how our information and/or lifestyle has impacted them. We are very much so “helpers.” We always have been, it’s basically what our relationship was founded on – helping others. That’s what we aimed to do with our blog.

When we were building our van, most of the information we found on the internet was outdated, misleading, or too specific to one person’s build. We couldn’t find a true universal resource that anyone could use to examine all the options and ideas for building out a van. So we decided to create a one-stop shop for all things van build, so that we can help others cut through the confusion and get on the road as easily as possible.

We’re constantly communicating with and listening to our followers and trying to answer the questions they have about van life. We just recently had a bunch of followers ask us about life on the road with dogs, so we are working on a collaborative post with other van lifers about their personal experiences with dogs since everyone’s travels and vans and dogs are vastly different. If you have any questions that we have not yet answered on our blog – reach out to us! We would love to keep the knowledge and information flowing to those who are searching for it!

Another thing that really keeps us going is the nomad community. We’ve met tons of amazing people on the road, first through social media and now in person. We’ve been able to develop real life friendships with people that we initially idolized on Instagram. The van life community is incredibly open, accepting, and inspiring. Everyone is stoked on this lifestyle, and we all want to see other van lifers succeed and break free from societal constraints. There’s just something awesome about being part of a group of like-minded people all going through similar crazy experiences. The bonds we’ve formed are real, and we all kind of keep each other going.

Who is Gnomad Home?

Couple in can with two dogs

We are a quirky family of four (two humans, two dogs) that love traveling, adventures, new experiences, and finding the joy in life. We don’t love being tied down or squeezed into “little boxes,” which is why we decided to sell everything and travel the country with our dogs and our van.

Check them out on their blog, social media and give them a follow!





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23 thoughts on “How One Couple Ditched The 9 To 5 For Van Life”

  1. Yes! So glad I found this post. It’s just the encouragement I needed that our dream really can pan out. We just packed up (and purged!) our 4 bedroom house. The renters moved in on Friday and we are at my parents for two weeks, before we hit the road right after Thanksgiving! We have a 5th wheel and are excited about the full-time road life, but definitely nervous too. The blog isn’t making much yet, but it’s slowly building. We will be looking for seasonal jobs until it’s at a place we can live off of. We will be a ski resort for three months, but then not sure after that. Do you mind sharing how you found the work on the farm?! We are looking for different jobs to do along the road! Thank you for this open and honest post! These tips are so helpful!

  2. Oh my goodness, I wish I could live their life and live in the great outdoors, minus the dogs just add a grown son with autism 🙂 Great post on being young, chasing your dreams and looking to the future!

  3. This is what I dream of, it may take me time but im working on it.the thought of waking up when it is still dark outside in the winter going out to work for someone, helping them build their dreams yet they do not even appreciate what I do.
    I admire anyone who has managed to break free of office politics and the nine to five grind.

  4. Hey what an awesome post!

    That lifestyle is very interesting to me and it is something that I would definitely consider doing myself. I love traveling and blogging. I’m still working on becoming a digital nomad myself. I’m very close! 😀

    I really like how they have organized everything in their life to do what they love doing. That is the best way to live for sure!

    Thank you very much for sharing!

    Cheers! 😀

  5. I admire how you’re managing to do this. For me looks impossible to live in the van and sell everything. You can see from the article how much you’re enjoying in life :clap: !

    1. I don’t know how they do it but they do it beautifully! It has inspired us to start planning our future adventures of traveling full time and maybe doing a ‘SUV life’ or something of a hybrid of camping and living out of our SUV or maybe get a small RV! We just don’t know where to start..taking baby steps!

  6. Love this! You guys are living the dream. It may not be everyone’s dream to go off the grid and be a van nomad, but there is a freedom to doing whatever you want, whenever you want it. I love the detailed explanation of what to look out for. My fav of course is the shenanigans :-D. Blessings to you and safe travels!! <3

  7. This is so awesome! This is my goal for my family! I’m trying to figure out how to do the van life thing with three kids. This was a really helpful post, thanks for all the information!

    1. Glad the post was helpful to you! I would love to hear more about your guys’ story if you do end up doing the van life thing with 3 kids! Keep us updated!! Have a great day, Rachel and thanks for stopping by!! <3

  8. I found this very inspiring; I have always been intrigued by the idea of living in a tiny house or a van because of the minimalism of it all! Your daily routine sounds so fun and peaceful!

    1. Their story is so inspiring which is why I just HAD to interview them! Check out their blog for more tips for living minimal, in a tiny house or van!

  9. Awesome interview and very inspiring. I like my luxuries too much for van life but its inspiring how this family made their dreams happen and how they made their blogs a success!

  10. Hello Daniella,

    Awesome insights over here 🙂

    Good to learn about John and Jayme over here. It seems like they really took of the risk and they have the courage to
    switch their 9 to 5 jobs to a work from van life.

    They really took the decision making choice which got them all the things along with the adventurous life they ever wished for.

    Their vans looks pretty cool and they have made it very promising to come with the van life.

    Thanks a lot of sharing their story among us.


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